Do you ever wonder if you actually exist to that one person you fancy or just there when they want something from you? What does it mean when your "super friends with benefits" but they know you want to be their significant other? Yet they don't want to destroy the friendship you have. Can't really be friends after that. You've crossed the point of no return after sleeping with each other. If you're that heartless, by all means, stop before you hurt the other person. If you are not solely interested in that person beyond sex, move along. After some time, feelings will develop. Granted you could have had feelings for them since you were a preteen but never said anything until after all this went down. Truth is, if the bridge gets burned then it gets burned. Not like it's going to matter due to the continuos flings, only gonna hurt when they get a significant other. If they tell you that they're screwed up and can't handle being in a relationship right now, one of two things are happening. One, they are being honest. Or two, they're lying to you. To be quite frank, there is no guarantee for either one. If you're there for that person before they had money and you're still around and you genuinely care for that person, then there shouldn't be a reason not to try. Really shouldn't. No matter what is going on. If you're "super best friends with benefits" then you're practically dating. That's what I think. Honesty, if I am with you from the begining when you had no money, have your back when nobody else does, and I'm still here after you chose someone else over me, I can promise you that I'll stick around awhile longer. There is only so much that one can take. Just keep your head up and show that person you're still there for them. Never know what will happen.
