My fellow readers, I have a tale to tell. As I spin my words and riddles, please don't belittle me. Stay awhile and hear me out.
Women that become pregnant and the baby daddy makes the choice to stay with his girl and baby is a good man. If the father stays to be the father but isn't in a relationship with the mother is still a good man. Fuck what everybody says. If he's man enough to take responsibility of the baby, that's goos enough for me. So sit down and shut up because it ain't your baby. Now if a woman is pregnant and the baby daddy says he'll still be there for the baby but wants a paternity test once the child is born, you know he wants nothing to do with that baby. Takes two to tango, baby. Should've thought of that before you let your sperm fly. Ladies, if your baby daddy pulls a stunt like that, he's not worth the time. Just means he's not man enough to care for the child even if it's not his. I know a man that loves this woman even when she was pregnant. He's still with her and her baby girl. He loves that baby like she's his own. Now that's a man. He's engaged to her and loves her dearly. I'm saying all of this because it shouldn't matter what other people say. If you gotta baby on the way and you're young and not married but you wanna keep the baby, by all means, do it but remember, it's YOUR baby. Don't let nobody tell you that you can't do it. Don't let nobody tell you to not let the father see his child if you and him are friends or still talk. If he wants to be apart of the baby's life, then so be it. Listen to your heart. Not what others say. Don't let them walk all over you and control you. Your decision. If you're family threatens to throw you and the baby out, then they're idiots. If you got some good friends, you're safe. They'll help you out and be there for you. Just hold your head up high and you'll get through it. I say this because my mother worked her ass off when she was pregnant with me and worked after I was born so she could provide for us. Four years of working hard on her own. Worked herself so hard her health got bad but she still fights hard. She married a good man and had my little sister. My mother is the reason. I fight everyday for what I believe. If I'm pregnant like these other young women, I know for a fact I'll fight just as hard as my mother did for me. So don't you dare give up. Even if it seems like you got nothing, you have your baby. Fight for him/her so they can have a chance at life. Guide them as they grow and help them fight for their beliefs.